40 Days of Sharing: The Art of Welcoming

Our God is a welcoming God, constantly pursuing, seeking, and inviting people into His loving community. When we welcome someone, we bring them from being a vulnerable outsider to being connected. But welcoming is more than just entertaining guests or inviting people to church—it’s about cultivating a welcoming presence wherever we go. It all starts with our intention and attitude.

(This series is inspired by the book The 9 Arts of Spiritual Conversations by Schaller and Crilly.)

What Makes a Welcoming Environment?

Creating a truly welcoming space requires: honesty, authenticity, common interests, flexibility, generous hospitality, good conversation, genuine listening, empathy, fun, and humor. We see all of these qualities in Jesus as He interacted with His followers.

Luke 15:1-2
“Now the tax collectors and sinners were all gathering around to hear Jesus. But the Pharisees and the teachers of the law muttered, ‘This man welcomes sinners and eats with them.’”

Jesus embraced people just as they were, meeting them where they were. He calls us to do the same. How can we intentionally create a welcoming presence in our everyday lives? Let’s look at four key aspects:

1. Your Face: The First Welcome

Ever heard the saying, “Are you happy? Then tell it to your face”? Sometimes we unintentionally project stern or unapproachable expressions, even when we’re not upset. A simple smile and warm eye contact can go a long way in making others feel seen and welcomed. Be intentional about how your face reflects your heart toward others.

2. Your Space: Making Others Feel Comfortable

Some people naturally struggle with relational awkwardness, whether they’re introverts or extroverts. Ask yourself:

• Do I make an effort to help people feel at ease around me?
• Do I try to find common ground in conversations?
  Building comfort takes intentionality, but when we create a safe and inviting relational space, we bridge the gap between strangers and community.

3. Your Place: Setting the Atmosphere

Where we welcome people matters. The goal isn’t perfection—it’s warmth and invitation.

• A home that’s too spotless can feel intimidating.
• A space that’s too chaotic can feel uncomfortable.
  Think about the places where you feel most relaxed and accepted. How can you create that same atmosphere for others?

4. Your Grace: Accepting People as They Are

A truly welcoming presence extends grace. It means:

• Being a person others feel safe with.
• Accepting people where they are, not where we think they should be.
• Creating an environment where people feel comfortable being real and vulnerable.

Welcoming grace is acknowledging that life is messy and we don’t have all the answers—but we walk together toward Jesus, who does.

How Will You Welcome Others This Week?

Wherever we are, we can carry the atmosphere of God’s love. A welcoming presence doesn’t just happen inside the church—it happens at work, in our homes, and in everyday moments. Who can you intentionally welcome into your life today?

— Pastor Zoe