Josh Hatcher is the Communications Director at Open Arms Community Church. He is married to Pastor Zoe Hatcher, and leads the Tribe of Lions Microchurch for men. He also is the founder of Manlihood.com
It’s that time of year again — Trunk or Treat is back! 🎃✨ This fall, Grace Lutheran Church and Open Arms Community Church are joining forces once again to bring joy, laughter, and the love of Jesus to families across Bradford, PA.
This year’s theme is “Christmas Movies!” — so get ready to see your favorite holiday classics come to life in the parking lot, complete with costumes, lights, and creative trunk displays that remind us that hope came down at Christmas.
🎁 Event Details
📍 Location: Grace Lutheran Church Community Life Center, Mechanic Street Bradford, PA 📅 Date: October 31 🕓 Trunk Setup: 4:30–5:30 PM 🙏 Opening Volunteer Prayer: 5:45 PM 🎉 Event: 6:00–8:00 PM 🧹 Cleanup: 8:00–8:30 PM
🌟 How You Can Get Involved
We need your help to make this community event shine bright! Whether you’re part of Open Arms, Grace Lutheran, or just someone who loves to serve, there’s a place for you.
We’re looking for volunteers to help with:
Inside games and kitchen
Parking lot monitors
Candy runners
Cleanup crew
Or — decorate your trunk with a fun Christmas movie theme and help make this a night families will never forget!
❤️ Why We Do It
Trunk or Treat is more than just candy and costumes — it’s a way to show our neighbors the joy, love, and generosity of Jesus. Together with Grace Lutheran, we’re building connections, serving our community, and spreading light in a season that can sometimes feel dark.
🎄 Join the Fun
Sign up today to volunteer or host a trunk — and be part of this special night of community and connection. Let’s work together to make this year’s Trunk or Treat the best one yet!
Open Arms Community Church is honored to partner again with Grace Lutheran Church to reach families in Bradford, PA, with hope, fun, and faith.
Date: Saturday, November 15, 2025 Location: Kane Area High School (6965 PA-321, Kane, PA 16735)
What is The Story Tour?
The Story Tour is a live event experience built around one truth: “Your story’s not over.” It’s a powerful evening of music, testimony, and ministry, aimed especially at anyone facing a mountain in life—addiction, depression, broken relationships, or simply the challenge of believing there’s more for them.
Highlights of the evening include:
Music by Allan Scott Band, whose lead singer Allan Scott is a former drug-addict turned worship leader and speaker.
Testimony from Travis Habbershon, a suicide-survivor, pastor and author who now lives in Pennsylvania with 16 years clean and sober.
A selection of “God-stories” from around the U.S.—freedom from substance abuse, restoration of marriages, deliverance from depression—offered live and via video.
A welcoming, inter-denominational environment: people from all church backgrounds (or none) are invited to come and receive hope.
“You will leave full of hope and believing that God can restore any situation!”
Why you’ll want to bring others
This isn’t just another concert or speaker event. It’s built around real-life stories of brokenness and redemption. If you or someone you care about is walking through a difficult season—whether addiction, relational pain, mental health struggles or just “I feel stuck”—this evening is designed for you. The website puts it this way:
“Facing unbeatable odds? An addiction? A mountain in your life? ….. Are you the family member of someone dealing with substance abuse? Is your marriage going through a difficult season? … This night was designed for you!”
It also provides a strong opportunity for outreach: invite friends, neighbors, coworkers who might be reluctant to visit a church service but could be drawn to a “night of hope & healing.”
Event Details & Ticket Info
Doors open 5:30 pm (VIP), general admission 6:00 pm, event begins 6:30 pm.
Some testimony and topics may not be suitable for young children—please use your discretion.
Bring your friends, bring someone who needs hope—and come expecting that God can heal any hurt, move any mountain, and restore any situation.
How Open Arms Is Showing Up
At Open Arms Community Church, we believe that hope is something we show up for. The Story Tour isn’t just another event passing through town—it’s an opportunity for us to stand with people in our community who are walking through hard seasons and to remind them that their story isn’t over.
Several of our microchurches will be attending and serving that night—coming together to pray, connect, and support what God is doing through this ministry. We want to be present in the room, ready to encourage, to listen, and to love people right where they are.
Our hope is that everyone who walks through those doors feels the genuine welcome and compassion of Jesus. Whether someone’s coming from a place of addiction, heartbreak, doubt, or just searching for something real—we want them to know they’re not alone.
We’re showing up not just as a church, but as friends, neighbors, and fellow travelers who believe in redemption and new beginnings.
How you can help
Buy your tickets early—and consider inviting someone who might not buy one unless you asked them.
Pray for the event: for Allan, Travis, the band, the testimonies, the setup team, and our church’s team.
Serve on the night if possible: greeting, hospitality, guiding guests, offering follow-up connections.
Follow up with anyone you bring or meet: an event like this can be the beginning of a new chapter, but the real change happens in the days and weeks after.
A final word
If you’ve ever felt like you’re on the edge—maybe you’ve looked at your life and thought “this can’t get any worse,” or “who cares if I try anymore”—this is your invitation to believe that your story’s still being written. The Story Tour isn’t about church-ritual or performance per se, it’s about real lives, broken places, healing steps, and the God who makes all things new.
As the event tagline says: “Heal any hurt. Move any mountain. Restore any situation.”
We are excited to host this powerful night in Kane—and can’t wait to see how God moves through our church body and our community.
There’s something special about gathering around a table with friends — sharing good food, laughter, and gratitude. This November, Open Arms Community Church invites you to our Friendsgiving Community Dinner on Saturday, November 15, from 6:00–7:30 PM!
Whether you’re part of our church family or part of our wider community, you’re welcome to pull up a chair and enjoy a great meal together.
🍗 What’s for Dinner?
Our Community Fun Night team will be serving delicious BBQ chicken. Please bring a picnic-style dish to share — sides, salads, or desserts are all welcome. Potluck vibes, full hearts!
🎬 Cozy Atmosphere
We’ll have A Charlie Brown Thanksgiving playing softly in the background — a simple, nostalgic touch while we eat and connect.
🙌 Open to Everyone
This is a community-wide event. Bring your family, friends, and neighbors. If you’re looking for a friendly place to share a meal and meet people, you belong here.
Join us for an evening of warmth, good food, and friendship as we celebrate the season of gratitude together.
Do As I Do, Part 8 Open Arms Community Church – Bradford, PA
We live in a world full of shifting opinions, unstable foundations, and fragile faith. We scroll, listen, read, and react—but often we build on sand without realizing it.
In this week’s message, Don’t Just Read the Bible — Build Your Life on It, Pastor Zoe reminds us that the strength of our faith doesn’t depend on how much we know—it depends on what we’re standing on.
Because when life gets dark, when the winds pick up, when everything you trusted starts shaking… only one foundation will hold: the Word of God, hidden in your heart and lived out in your life.
We often treat Scripture like a book to read, not a life to build. But Psalm 119 says something deeper:
Psalm 119:9–16 (NIV) 9 How can a young person stay on the path of purity? By living according to your word. 10 I seek you with all my heart; do not let me stray from your commands. 11 I have hidden your word in my heart that I might not sin against you. 12 Praise be to you, Lord; teach me your decrees. 13 With my lips I recount all the laws that come from your mouth. 14 I rejoice in following your statutes as one rejoices in great riches. 15 I meditate on your precepts and consider your ways. 16 I delight in your decrees; I will not neglect your word.
Pastor Zoe shared that the word “hidden” doesn’t mean concealed—it means stored, treasured, kept safe. You don’t wait for the storm to start building the foundation. You lay it now.
💡 When the Lights Go Out
A little girl once got scared when the power went out at home. Her parents told her to grab the lantern from the closet. She didn’t panic—she walked straight to it.
Why? Because she already knew where it was before it got dark.
That’s what it means to hide God’s Word in your heart. When life goes dark, you don’t have to fumble for faith—you already know where to find the light.
“Your word is a lamp for my feet, a light on my path.” — Psalm 119:105 (NIV)
🧱 Building on the Rock
Jesus told a story that gets right to the point:
Matthew 7:24–27 (NIV) 24 “Therefore everyone who hears these words of mine and puts them into practice is like a wise man who built his house on the rock. 25 The rain came down, the streams rose, and the winds blew and beat against that house; yet it did not fall, because it had its foundation on the rock. 26 But everyone who hears these words of mine and does not put them into practice is like a foolish man who built his house on sand. 27 The rain came down, the streams rose, and the winds blew and beat against that house, and it fell with a great crash.”
The difference between the wise builder and the foolish one wasn’t knowledge—it was obedience. Both heard the Word. Only one did something with it.
When we hear without doing, our lives lean like the Tower of Pisa—tilted by time, weakened by shifting ground. But when we hear and do, when we build on the Word, we stand firm no matter what hits.
📚 The Word That Breathes
Paul wrote to Timothy:
2 Timothy 3:14–17 (NIV) 14 But as for you, continue in what you have learned and have become convinced of, because you know those from whom you learned it, 15 and how from infancy you have known the Holy Scriptures, which are able to make you wise for salvation through faith in Christ Jesus. 16 All Scripture is God-breathed and is useful for teaching, rebuking, correcting and training in righteousness, 17 so that the servant of God may be thoroughly equipped for every good work.
The Word of God isn’t just ink on paper—it’s breath. Every verse carries the breath of God Himself. When you read it, it reads you. When you apply it, it forms you. When you obey it, it builds you.
“Is not my word like fire,” declares the Lord, “and like a hammer that breaks a rock in pieces?” — Jeremiah 23:29 (NIV)
💭 Renewing Your Mind
Faith that lasts begins with a renewed mind:
Romans 12:1–2 (NIV) 1 Therefore, I urge you, brothers and sisters, in view of God’s mercy, to offer your bodies as a living sacrifice, holy and pleasing to God—this is your true and proper worship. 2 Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—his good, pleasing and perfect will.
Transformation happens when we stop conforming to the noise of culture and start conforming to the voice of Scripture.
The Word doesn’t just inform your life—it forms it.
🔨 Putting It into Practice
The Bible is clear: it’s not enough to read or even memorize Scripture if we never live it out.
Start small.
Open your Bible every day, even for five minutes.
Pick one verse and ask, “What will I do with this?”
Write it down. Pray it back.
Practice it this week until it sticks.
As Pastor Zoe said:
“The goal of reading Scripture isn’t to finish it—it’s to let it finish you.”
✨ A Life That Doesn’t Fall
When your foundation is Scripture, you don’t just survive storms—you grow stronger through them. The winds may shake your house, but they’ll never move the Rock beneath it.
“Heaven and earth will pass away, but my words will never pass away.” — Matthew 24:35 (NIV)
🕊️ Do As I Do, Part 5 — Solitude: Finding the Secret Place
We all feel it — the constant noise, the notifications, the hurry, the crowds. Our world hums with distractions that keep our souls restless and our minds captive.
But Jesus offers something radically different: An invitation to step away. To be alone with Him — not to escape the world, but to be renewed for it.
“Come with me by yourselves to a quiet place and get some rest.” — Mark 6:31 (NIV)
Through solitude, we are invited into Jesus’ rhythm of retreating from the noise to be fully present with the Father, and then returning to love and serve others.
🌿 Why Jesus Chose Solitude
Jesus made solitude a priority. In a world full of need, pressure, and opportunity, He consistently withdrew to lonely places to pray.
Luke 5:16 (NIV) But Jesus often withdrew to lonely places and prayed.
Jesus often went to solitary or deserted places to commune with God. This wasn’t avoidance — it was alignment. It was a deliberate choice to escape the demands of ministry and people so He could receive spiritual guidance, power, and rest.
If Jesus needed that space, so do we. Solitude demonstrates priorities — it shows what matters most.
🔄 The Rhythm of Retreat and Return
Solitude was never a one-time act for Jesus; it was His rhythm of life. Like breathing in and out, He practiced a pattern of retreat and return.
Matthew 14:22–23 (NIV) Immediately Jesus made the disciples get into the boat and go on ahead of him to the other side, while he dismissed the crowd. After he had dismissed them, he went up on a mountainside by himself to pray. Later that night, he was there alone.
He sent His disciples ahead so He could withdraw in solitude. Later, He returned to continue His mission. This rhythm — inhale with God, exhale into the world — sustained everything He did.
🌤️ When Jesus Invited His Disciples to Rest
Even the disciples, busy with ministry and service, were invited to this same rest.
Mark 6:30–32 (NIV) The apostles gathered around Jesus and reported to him all they had done and taught. Then, because so many people were coming and going that they did not even have a chance to eat, he said to them, “Come with me by yourselves to a quiet place and get some rest.” So they went away by themselves in a boat to a solitary place.
Jesus didn’t say, “Work harder” — He said, “Come away.” He understood that spiritual strength flows from spiritual stillness. Without time alone with the Father, even good things eventually become draining things.
🕯️ The Foundation of Spiritual Life
Henri Nouwen once wrote:
“Without solitude, it is virtually impossible to live a spiritual life.”
Solitude is foundational because it roots every other practice — prayer, Sabbath, fasting, and service — in love rather than performance.
Yet solitude isn’t always easy. It can be deeply refreshing, but it can also feel like painful emotional surgery. When we slow down, the things we’ve buried — grief, regret, fear, anger — begin to rise to the surface. But God brings these things up not to wound us, but to heal us.
In solitude, God forms us into the people He has always desired us to become.
⚔️ The Battles of the Soul
In solitude, we face the same three enemies that Scripture names again and again:
The world — the noise and distractions that keep us from hearing God.
The flesh — the restless desires that crave control and comfort.
The devil — the deceiver who distorts truth.
But solitude is where truth starts to win. When the noise dies down, the voice of God becomes clear again.
🤼♂️ Wrestling with God
Solitude isn’t always serene — sometimes, it’s a wrestling match. One of Scripture’s most profound encounters in solitude happened with Jacob.
Genesis 32:22–30 (NIV) That night Jacob got up and took his two wives, his two female servants and his eleven sons and crossed the ford of the Jabbok. After he had sent them across the stream, he sent over all his possessions. So Jacob was left alone, and a man wrestled with him till daybreak. When the man saw that he could not overpower him, he touched the socket of Jacob’s hip so that his hip was wrenched as he wrestled with the man. Then the man said, “Let me go, for it is daybreak.” But Jacob replied, “I will not let you go unless you bless me.” The man asked him, “What is your name?” “Jacob,” he answered. Then the man said, “Your name will no longer be Jacob, but Israel, because you have struggled with God and with humans and have overcome.” Jacob said, “Please tell me your name.” But he replied, “Why do you ask my name?” Then he blessed him there. So Jacob called the place Peniel, saying, “It is because I saw God face to face, and yet my life was spared.”
Jacob’s story is a reminder that solitude may not always feel peaceful. Sometimes, it feels like a fight — a fight with fear, with guilt, with God Himself. But notice: Jacob left that encounter limping… and blessed. The limp became a reminder of grace — that in weakness, he had met the living God.
🕰️ Steps to Practicing Solitude
Solitude rarely happens by accident; it must be chosen intentionally. Here are simple, practical steps to begin cultivating this rhythm:
Schedule Time and Place Select a consistent time and a quiet location free from interruptions. Make it part of your daily rhythm.
Eliminate Distractions Turn off your phone. Silence notifications. Let your family or coworkers know you’ll be unavailable for a short time.
Start Small Begin with 15–30 minutes. It doesn’t need to be hours — just a moment of intentional presence.
Set a Timer Use a timer so you’re not tempted to check the clock. This helps your mind settle.
Focus Your Attention You might focus on your breathing, a short verse, or simply the beauty of your surroundings. Let your attention rest on God.
Observe and Accept When thoughts or emotions arise, don’t fight them. Acknowledge them and gently return to your focus. Solitude is not about perfection — it’s about presence.
🌤️ The Rewards of Solitude
What happens when you actually make space for solitude?
Self-Reflection: You become aware of your inner life — your motives, wounds, and longings.
Spiritual Growth: You begin to hear God’s voice with clarity.
Peace and Calm: Studies — and Scripture — show that stillness reduces anxiety and renews strength.
Identity: You remember who you truly are — a beloved child of God, not defined by productivity or approval.
Solitude restores what hurry steals.
🌿 The Secret Place
Jesus spoke clearly about solitude in His teaching on prayer:
Matthew 6:6 (NKJV) “But you, when you pray, go into your room, and when you have shut your door, pray to your Father who is in the secret place; and your Father who sees in secret will reward you openly.”
The “secret place” isn’t necessarily a physical room — it’s a posture of the heart. It’s any space where you can be honest, unguarded, and still before God.
This might be:
A park bench at sunrise 🌅
A quiet walk after work 🚶♂️
A fishing spot 🎣
Your bedroom late at night 🌙
Even a locked bathroom if that’s the only quiet spot available 🚪
The place isn’t sacred — His presence is.
💬 Why We Resist Solitude
Even though we long for peace, many of us avoid solitude. We fill every gap in the day with noise or movement. Underneath, there’s a deeper battle happening — a push-pull dynamic of the heart.
Part of us desires God and His will. Another part of us resists Him — wanting to rule our own kingdom.
We say:
“I’m too busy.” “I’ll pray when I have time.” “I just can’t slow down.”
But busyness is one of the enemy’s most effective weapons. Hurry keeps us from hearing the voice that matters most.
We must ruthlessly eliminate hurry from our lives. The stakes are high — peace or exhaustion, presence or burnout, life or death of the soul.
🎸 Less Is More
In the 1980s, Gibson Guitars ran an ad for their Les Paul model that said, “Les is more.”
That phrase captures a profound spiritual truth. When we simplify — when we do less, hurry less, scroll less — we begin to notice more. More peace. More awareness. More of God.
Less noise, more presence. Less striving, more surrender. Less distraction, more delight.
🔥 The Fruit of Solitude
Solitude isn’t about escape; it’s about empowerment. When you retreat with God, you return refreshed and ready to love.
Through solitude we:
Heal from inner wounds.
Hear God’s voice more clearly.
Gain spiritual strength to stand against the enemy.
Learn to love from overflow rather than exhaustion.
Without the quiet, our spiritual lives wither. But with it, we come alive to the greatest joy of life — a familiar friendship with Jesus.
💛 Find the Quiet — Find God
Each of the spiritual practices — Sabbath, prayer, fasting, solitude — is designed to keep us connected and aligned with the heart of the Father.
As we make space for the secret place, our souls begin to wake up. A holy flame starts to burn again. And in that flame, we rediscover what Jesus meant when He said:
“Come and see.” — John 1:39 (NIV)
He invites you not just to believe in Him, but to be with Him. In the quiet. In the secret place. In the stillness where His love restores your soul.
So find your secret place — wherever that may be — and go there often. Fall in love with it. Fall in love with Him.
My wife listens to a podcast every morning by JD Walt called “The Wake-Up Call”. I have listened alongside her on occasion, and I had the privilege of briefly bumping shoulders with JD at the New Room Conference last year.
I decided to start listening for myself as I’m on a quest for a bit of a mental and spiritual reset. Too much scrolling on my phone has my dopamine levels all out of whack. The current climate on social media has turned toxic, and so my options are watching people I love argue with each other, or the “brain rot” content that occasionally makes you chuckle, but definitely doesn’t build your soul.
This morning’s episode resonated deeply with me, for a few reasons. I’ll start with the end of the podcast first. At the end of each episode JD sings a hymn. Today’s hymn was what he called “The Baptist Fight Song” and while growing up in an old fashioned Baptist Church, I’ve never heard that phrase, but before he said the title, I knew he meant “Just As I Am.”
I was driving while listening, and that song broke open my tear ducts. I’m sure I was all over the road this morning, wiping tears from my eyes as I was transported back to my childhood and teenage years, standing up at the end of sermon, listening to Mrs. Florence Sinsabaugh in her finest polyester dress, as she let the foot pedals on the organ swell, and both hands holding out the long chords, while Judy Youngblood accentuated with the piano. Pastor H.D. Youngblood would lead us in singing, waving his hand to keep the time, and between verses, he’d call us home. Rarely did anyone go up to the altar. But with every head bowed, and every eye closed, hands were raised to pledge commitment to Jesus.
We didn’t applaud much in the Baptist Church, but inside out hearts, we were cheering when Pastor would say, “I see that hand, Thank You Lord.”
We’d usually sing verses 1, 2, and 5, and there was usually an instrumental verse in there too.
1.
Just as I am, without one plea,
But that Thy blood was shed for me,
And that Thou bid’st me come to Thee,
O Lamb of God, I come! I come!
2.
Just as I am, and waiting not
To rid my soul of one dark blot;
To Thee whose blood can cleanse each spot,
O Lamb of God, I come, I come!
3.
Just as I am, though tossed about
With many a conflict, many a doubt;
Fightings within, and fears without,
O Lamb of God, I come, I come!
4.
Just as I am, poor, wretched, blind;
Sight, riches, healing of the mind;
Yes, all I need, in Thee to find,
O Lamb of God, I come, I come!
5.
Just as I am, Thou wilt receive,
Wilt welcome, pardon, cleanse, relieve;
Because Thy promise I believe,
O Lamb of God, I come, I come!
6.
Just as I am, Thy love unknown
Has broken every barrier down;
Now, to be Thine, yea, Thine alone,
O Lamb of God, I come, I come!
And I was reminded of another very personal story, that has echoed deeply in my family lore. My maternal grandfather was a bad man. The best thing he had ever done was to abandon his family. That may sound like a bad thing, but the truth is, abandoning them was the best thing. I won’t get into telling the story that really belongs to my mother and her siblings. I’ll just say he was a bad man.
Abandoned, my grandmother turned to Jesus, and paved the way for her family. They met Jesus, many of them probably hearing Pastor Youngblood sing Just As I Am, and our family’s direction was changed.
At some point, my grandfather had stumbled into a church, probably drunk. He told the story, “If that preacher would have sang one more verse of Just As I Am, I’d have walked up to that altar.” – But of course he didn’t.
Years later, after leaving a lifetime of pain and struggle in his wake, my grandfather called my grandmother. “Deanie, I’m dying. I have cancer. Would you come out and see me?”
The story I remember is that he was found laying on the ground with a pile of cigarette butts on one side, and a pile of beer cans on the other. The cancer had eaten through most of him, and he was on his way out of this world.
My grandmother went out, and invited the rest of the family.
They didn’t go because they wanted to be with him. They went because they had a mission, to introduce Grandpa Dave to grace. To plead for his soul to be saved.
They preached the gospel, sang songs, and Uncle Mike started playing Just As I Am. When he got to the end of the song, the old man said, “Keep playing.” Grandpa Dave prayed, probably for the first time in his life. He asked for forgiveness for his sins. And in the remaining few days of his life, there was a change. Tiny fruits of the Spirit growing in the small window he had left.
Just as he was. Without a plea, except that Jesus’ blood was shed for him.
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The podcast episode was centered around this thought. A woman told JD in conversation, “I don’t want you to think I’m not a good person.”
JD’s response, “You’re not a good person. And I’m not a good person.”
This truth is one we need to grasp fully.
I see it echoed on the social media feed that I’m trying to ignore right now.
Virtue signalling.
Folks pointing fingers at the “evil” they see on the other side.
“Those folks are violating what the Bible clearly commands!”
“Those folks are bigots and hypocrites!”
With the inference that “I’m better.”
We post things on the internet, and say things in conversation because we want others to think we are good people.
“I’m a good person. I don’t condone sin.” “I’m a good person. I hate racism.” “I’m a good person. I love America.” “I’m a good person. I challenge broken systems!”
“I’m a good person. I want justice!” “I’m a good person. I stand with So and So!”
Don’t get me wrong, a lot of these might be good things, to stand up for the oppressed, to long for justice, to support your country, to stand for truth and righteousness.
But the thing is, none of us are good people.
That’s what’s so hard for people to accept. That’s what’s so scandalous about the gospel.
We don’t earn right standing with God by your good deeds.
We don’t deserve to be seen as heroes and martyrs and virtuous.
When Jesus delivered the sermon on the mount, and he said this:
“You have heard that our ancestors were told, ‘You must not murder. If you commit murder, you are subject to judgment. But I say, if you are even angry with someone,you are subject to judgment! If you call someone an idiot,[e] you are in danger of being brought before the court. And if you curse someone,[f] you are in danger of the fires of hell.” -Matthew 5
I’d encourage you to read that whole passage. If I paraphrase what he’s saying,, “You guys are missing the point. In order to earn God’s favor, you have to be better than the commands. The commands say ‘Don’t murder.’ But if you hate someone in your heart or call them an idiot, you’re just as bad. If you lust after a woman, it’s just as bad as having sex with her.”
He’s making a point and establishing his authority, and emphasizng that all of us are not good people.
Paul reiterates it:
“For all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God” – Romans 3:23
This is the beauty of it.
He paid the cost for us.
“He himself is the sacrifice that atones for our sins—and not only our sins but the sins of all the world.” – 1 John 2:2
We aren’t good people. We are all sinners, and all of us are short of God’s expectations. And even if we kept the commandments in practice, we’d break them in our hearts.
But thank God!
“But God showed his great love for us by sending Christ to die for us while we were still sinners.” –Romans 5:8
He meets us just as we are, and He makes up for what we lack, so that we can be right with him.
Sometimes, we who He has redeemed forget where we came from. We forget that we’re only right with God because of what Jesus did. We’re not good people. We’re His people. He paid for us. He bought us with His suffering on the cross.
Anything good in us is because God put it there. Even before we knew Him, the good in us was the reflection of His image in us, because He made us. And now that we have surrendered to Him, the good is not because of us. It’s because of Him.
Let us never forget that.
written by
Josh Hatcher
Josh Hatcher is the Communications Director at Open Arms Community Church. He is married to Pastor Zoe Hatcher, and leads the Tribe of Lions Microchurch for men. He also is the founder of Manlihood.com
Maybe you’ve been feeling it lately– that tug in your heart. You can’t quite explain it, but you know God is calling you deeper. Or maybe you’ve been away from Him for a long time, and something in you is saying, “It’s time to come home.”
I know that feeling. I’ve been there. And I want to tell you my story.
I Thought I Knew Him
I grew up in a Christian home. My parents had both walked away from destructive paths and found hope in Jesus.Before I was born, my dad had been an alcoholic and a violent man, but when he met Christ, he never drank again and became known for his kindness. My mom broke free from a similar cycle and chose a new life.
From the time I was in utero, I was in church. I loved church. Sweet and kind people. Warm and inviting organ music. Cookies with the cream in the middle and kool aid. Wooden toys and Jesus coloring pages. Songs and sermons that sweetly comforted me and snuck into my heart. We called all of the older people “Grandpa” and “Grandma” as though they were our own family.
I remember being very young, and lying to my mother. I think it may be the first time she recognized that her sweet little boy could sin. She told me how to pray to invite Jesus into my heart. I would like to think that I was sincere, but I’d find a deeper truth later.
I was baptized as a child shortly after that. I believed in God, I loved Jesus, but looking back, I realize I mostly went through the motions because I wanted to make my parents proud. It was meaningful in its own way, but my heart was still empty. I knew about Jesus — but I didn’t know Him.
The Breaking Point
By the time I was in eighth grade, the loneliness and brokenness had piled up. I was bullied. I felt unwanted. I was angry at myself, at others, and at the world. I carried dark thoughts — thoughts I acted on in ways I’m not proud of, and thoughts I almost acted on in ways I might not have survived.
I decided I was going to end my life. I had every intention of cutting my wrists. But in the middle of those thoughts, a fear gripped me:
What if I don’t really know Him? If I die, will I be in hell? Will I be separated from Him forever?
I knew God was real. But I realized maybe I wasn’t in Christ.
The Night Everything Changed
That night – and in the days that followed – I wrestled with God. I came to a point where I got down on my knees, literally, and told Him I was done running.
I asked Him to forgive me. I told Him I accepted what Jesus had done for me when He died on the cross – that His death paid the price for my sin. I chose to follow Him, to serve Him as my Good King.
And something happened. I can’t explain it any other way – but it was like I stepped out of the darkness into the light.
Peace settled in. Joy I had never known before came alive in me. It didn’t mean I never struggled again, but it meant I never struggled alone.
I told the Pastor at our little country church I wanted to be baptized. He smiled. He had dunked me several years before. But he knew that there had been a change in me. The first time, it was just a bath. This time, it was a commitment – a public declaration of what God had done for me.
Why I’m Telling You This
Here’s the thing: this isn’t about religion. It’s not about rules. It’s about a relationship with the One who made you, who loves you, and who gave His life for you.
Jesus isn’t just an inspiring teacher. He is God in the flesh. He died to pay for your sin, and He rose again so you could have real life – both now and forever.
And He’s calling you. Whether you’ve never known Him, or you’ve been away for years, He’s saying, Come home.
This Is Your Moment
You don’t have to have it all together. You don’t have to clean yourself up first.
All you have to do is turn to Him. Tell Him you believe. Ask Him to forgive you. Trust Him to lead you. He will meet you right where you are.
There are seasons when something inside of us feels… off. You might feel tired, numb, angry, or overwhelmed—and you can’t quite explain why. Maybe you’ve wrestled with anxiety or addiction. Maybe you feel like you’re stuck in patterns you should have broken by now. Or maybe—if you’re honest—it just feels like some part of your soul has gone cold.
You’re not alone.
But more importantly—you’re not without hope.
God specializes in resurrection.
He’s not just in the business of saving your soul for eternity—He wants to heal you here and now, breathe life into the parts of you that feel dead, and restore you from the inside out.
Why Do I Still Feel Broken?
We often try to deal with our emotional pain by managing symptoms. We work harder, eat more, scroll endlessly, escape into porn or alcohol, or throw ourselves into church work while feeling spiritually hollow.
But the problem is deeper than behavior.
In Soul Care, Rob Reimer writes:
“You can’t build a healthy soul on a foundation of lies. The foundation must be truth.”
That truth doesn’t come from self-help clichés. It comes from Jesus—the One who said, “Then you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free” (John 8:32, NLT).
Your behaviors are the fruit, not the root. If you want real healing, you have to get to the root—and let Jesus and the Holy Spirit do what only they can do.
How Do I Begin Inner Healing?
Healing isn’t about striving harder or checking off a spiritual to-do list. It’s about surrendering to the process—led by the Holy Spirit, anchored in the Word, and walked out in community.
Here’s how that journey can start.
1. Take Ownership (Confess and Come Clean)
We love to blame others or minimize our own dysfunction. But healing starts with confession—raw honesty before God and others.
“God desires truth in the inward parts.” — Psalm 51:6 (KJV)
You may not be responsible for what happened to you—but you are responsible for how you respond now.
“The Holy Spirit will not heal what you pretend is not there.” — Rob Reimer, Soul Care
Start by naming it. The sin. The wound. The shame. The fear. You can’t fix what you won’t face. But once you name it, you disarm its power.
2. Tell Yourself the Truth (Renew Your Mind)
The lies we believe about ourselves often started in childhood pain and trauma. “I’m not wanted.” “I’m a burden.” “I always mess things up.” These lies aren’t harmless—they become the lens through which we see the world.
“Our lives are shaped by the stories we tell ourselves—and many of those stories are lies.” — John Eldredge, Get Your Life Back
The Bible calls us to “be transformed by the renewing of your mind” (Romans 12:2, NLT). This means replacing toxic beliefs with the truth of God’s Word.
As Dallas Willard put it:
“You are what you do with your mind.”
So speak truth out loud:
“I am a child of God.” (John 1:12)
“I am not condemned.” (Romans 8:1)
“I have a sound mind.” (2 Timothy 1:7)
Renewal is warfare—and the battlefield is your thought life.
3. Dig Deep (Let the Holy Spirit Heal the Root)
This is the messy part. This is where most people stop—because it gets uncomfortable. But this is where the real work of healing happens.
“Freedom comes when we confess the truth, forgive the offender, and break agreement with the lie.” — Rob Reimer, Soul Care
Let the Holy Spirit guide you through these questions:
When was the first time I felt this way? Ask God to show you. He will. And it may surprise you.
What lie did I believe in that moment? That I’m not safe? Not valuable? Unwanted?
What is the truth, Jesus? Ask Him to speak. Then speak that truth out loud until it becomes part of you.
Did I make a vow I need to break? “I’ll never trust anyone again.” “I have to take care of myself.” Break those vows in Jesus’ name. Let Him rewire your inner world.
As Henry Cloud says:
“We change our behavior when the pain of staying the same becomes greater than the pain of changing.”
Let the Holy Spirit go to the roots. Invite Him into the places you’ve been too afraid to go.
4. Build New Habits (Walk in the Spirit, Not the Flesh)
You can’t experience spiritual freedom while continuing to feed the same old flesh patterns. That means you may need to change your inputs, adjust your schedule, or set new boundaries.
“Spiritual formation is not a passive process. It requires engagement and discipline.” — Dallas Willard
We’re not talking about white-knuckled willpower. We’re talking about forming new pathways—led by the Spirit.
Try this:
Worship first before you check your phone.
Fast from media that pulls you into comparison or lust.
Build margin in your week for reflection and prayer.
Sabbath without guilt—God designed you to rest.
“Since we are living by the Spirit, let us follow the Spirit’s leading in every part of our lives.” — Galatians 5:25 (NLT)
Freedom isn’t just about saying “no” to sin. It’s about saying “yes” to life with God.
5. Don’t Do It Alone (Let the Body of Christ Walk With You)
You were never meant to heal in isolation.
“Healing happens in the context of safe, grace-filled relationships.” — Rob Reimer, Soul Care
We say it all the time at Open Arms: church isn’t a service—it’s a family. And families carry each other’s burdens.
If you’re waiting to feel “ready,” you’ll wait forever. Start where you are.
“Confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed.” — James 5:16 (NLT)
Let God Breathe Life Into You
Maybe you’re tired of pretending you’re fine. Maybe you’ve been busy doing “Christian things” but feel spiritually hollow. Maybe, like the Pharisees Jesus rebuked, you’ve been focusing on performance while your soul quietly withers.
“Woe to you… you are like whitewashed tombs—beautiful on the outside but filled on the inside with dead people’s bones.” — Matthew 23:27 (NLT)
To the people that reject Christ, that’s self-condemnation. But to those of us willing to hear, it’s invitation. Jesus isn’t condemning us for being dry bones. He speaks life into them.
In Ezekiel 37, God took a valley full of dead bones and brought them back to life. How? Through His Word, through His breath, and through His Spirit.
“I will put breath into you, and you will come to life. Then you will know that I am the Lord.” — Ezekiel 37:6 (NLT)
That’s His promise for you, too. You don’t have to stay stuck. You don’t have to keep numbing out. Let Jesus put you back together. Let Him breathe on you again.
👣 Are You Ready to Come Back to Life?
It won’t happen overnight. But it starts with one step:
One truth spoken.
One wound confessed.
One lie broken.
One invitation to the Holy Spirit.
And then another. And another.
🔥 Join the Journey
Come walk it out with us. Open Arms Community Church meets Sunday mornings at 71 Congress Street in Bradford, PA. And our network of microchurches meets throughout the week in homes, coffee shops, and honest spaces all over the region.
Maybe you found this because you typed something into Google like:
Why do I feel so lost?
How do I get out of this dark place?
Is there any hope for me?
If that’s the case, I want to tell you something upfront: You are not alone.
A lot of us—more than we’d like to admit—have felt this way. We don’t talk about it, though. We just keep moving, pushing through, acting like it’s all okay while the weight of it presses down harder every day.
Hopelessness isn’t just a modern struggle. It’s something humanity has always wrestled with. Even the Bible captures the depths of despair that people have felt since the dawn of time.
God Understands Your Suffering
Isaiah 53:3 says: “He was despised and rejected by mankind, a man of suffering, and familiar with pain. Like one from whom people hide their faces, he was despised, and we held him in low esteem.”
This verse is a prophetic verse that was written before Jesus was born, but is talking about Jesus Himself. He knows what it’s like to suffer. He knows what it’s like to feel rejected, alone, and completely abandoned. Whatever you’re feeling right now, He understands.
When we read about Jesus in the Gospels, we do see Jesus faced with human emotion, including grief, distress, and fatigue. The Bible says that He was tempted in every way that we are, and I’m sure that He felt the feelings that we have felt. He knows. And He CARES.
In Psalm 88:3-4, the writer cries out: “I am overwhelmed with troubles and my life draws near to death. I am counted among those who go down to the pit; I am like one without strength.”
Have you ever felt that way? Like you’re just barely holding on? Like no matter what you do, the weight of everything is too much?
You’re not the first to feel that. You’re not the only one. Even those closest to God have felt that same crushing darkness. But here’s what you need to know: darkness is not the end of the story.
What Should I Do If I Feel Hopeless?
You might be asking:
How do I get out of this feeling?
What steps can I take to get my life back?
It starts with admitting that you can’t fix it alone. But you don’t have to—because God is right here, and He cares about you.
1. Ask God for Help
One of the biggest lies we believe when we’re struggling is that God doesn’t care. That He’s distant. That He’s too busy to notice our pain.
But that’s not the truth.
1 Peter 5:7 says: “Cast all your anxiety on him because he cares for you.”
God actually invites us to bring our burdens to Him. He’s not afraid of your pain. He’s not overwhelmed by your emotions. He wants to walk through it with you.
What does this look like?
Be honest with God. Tell Him what you’re feeling—even if it’s messy.
Ask Him for strength. Even if you don’t know what to say, just say, “God, help me.”
Don’t stop reaching out. Prayer doesn’t have to be formal—just talk to Him like you would a friend.
Psalm 34:17-18 reminds us: “The righteous cry out, and the Lord hears them; he delivers them from all their troubles. The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.”
If you feel hopeless, start here. Ask God for help. He hears you. He cares. And He won’t leave you alone in this.
You don’t have to pray a prescribed prayer, or follow a ritual. Just talk to Him like He’s your Dad. Like He’s in the room. He’s not offended by your emotion, your frustration, even if you’re a bit frustrated with Him. You can tell Him about that, and He can take it. But be willing to know the truth about Him, that He loves you, and wants to bring healing to the parts of you that are hurting.
I think of these lyrics from the song “Talkin’ to Jesus” There’s no wrong way to do it
There’s no bad time to start It don’t have to sound pretty Just tell Him what’s on your heart ‘Cause it’s not a religion ‘Cause it’s more like a friendship Just talk to your Father Like you are his kid
2. Be Careful What You Feed Your Mind
Maybe you’re wondering:
Why do I feel so much worse after scrolling through social media?
Does what I watch and listen to actually affect my mood?
The answer is yes.
There’s a phrase in programming: Garbage In, Garbage Out. If you feed a system garbage, it’s going to produce garbage. Your mind works the same way.
It seems like every few years, I got sucked into the political chaos leading up to whichever election is happening. I can find myself reading every article, watching the news, arguing online.
A few years ago I found myself pretty deep down the rabbit hole. I had really let my mind marinate in division, outrage, and hopelessness.
It wrecked me.
Then, as soon as the election was over, I shut it all off. And you know what happened? I felt peace again.
What are you feeding your mind? If it’s constant negativity, anger, and despair—no wonder you feel hopeless.
Philippians 4:8 reminds us: “Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things.”
It’s time to replace the noise with truth, hope, and life.
It’s really easy for us to blame a condition, rather than to take responsibility.
I’m not saying that mental health diagnoses aren’t real. (We’ll talk about those things in a moment.) But what I am saying is, we need to make sure that we are thoughtful and careful about what we feed our mind AND our bodies, as they do have a direct impact on how we feel.
Are we eating junk? Are we physically active? Taking a walk? Taking a shower? Getting enough sleep? Listening to the most depressing or angry music? Scrolling on social media and listening to influencers show us how we don’t measure up? Watching the news while it loops through its cycle of outrage and despair?
3. Call in the Pros
If you broke your leg, you wouldn’t just tell yourself to “walk it off.” You’d go see a doctor. But when our mental and emotional health is broken, we tell ourselves to just “push through.”
That’s a lie. Sometimes, you need help.
There is no shame in talking to a counselor, seeing a doctor, or even taking medication if that’s what helps you get back on solid ground. Some of the strongest people you know have done the same thing—you just don’t see it because they don’t talk about it.
If you’re in a dark place right now, reach out. There are people who want to help.
📞 National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 988 📞 Mental Health Treatment Referral Hotline: 1-877-726-4727
Even the Bible encourages seeking wise counsel. Proverbs 11:14 says: “Where there is no guidance, a people falls, but in an abundance of counselors there is safety.”
You don’t have to do this alone.
How Can I Heal from Past Wounds?
Maybe your hopelessness isn’t just about what’s happening right now. Maybe it’s been years in the making.
I didn’t realize how much my past was affecting me until I faced it head-on.
I was in kindergarten at the bus stop. Just a few weeks after school started. Two teenage brothers stood behind me. They stole my hat and threw it on top of a soda machine. Then, they pulled out a little box of matches.
Flick. Hushed laughter. SSSSST!
They put out the match on my neck. Then they did it again. Not just once, but several times over the next week. I didn’t flinch. I didn’t move. I didn’t scream. I just let it happen. I was scared. I was angry. But I also felt like it was my problem.
I had no idea how much that experience shaped me. There are so many lies that I believed about myself and carried with me throughout my childhood and into my adulthood because of what those other boys did at the bus stop. There are actually many experiences in my early life that compounded on top of each other to really create a whirlwind of lies and wounds that I’m frequently taking to my Heavenly Father for healing so that I can learn and grow.
I know folks who say, “When I gave my life to Jesus, He just took all that away in an instant!”
And I’m in no position to argue with their experience. I just know for me, He certainly forgave my sin, redeemed my soul, and gave me a new life, adopted me into His family, and radically changed me when I submitted my life to Him… but it has taken me years to allow Him into the parts of my mind and heart that I didn’t even know were broken and hurting! Jesus and I are walking out a very long and patient journey of healing my deep hurts, and replacing the lies left in the wake of those hurts with His truth.
What lies are you still believing from your past?
Jesus offers healing. Psalm 147:3 says: “He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds.”
He can do that for you, too.
Let God Heal the Broken Places in You
Sometimes, the wounds of our past keep us trapped in hopelessness. We try to move forward, but the pain lingers. The truth is, we can’t fully step into freedom until we invite God into those broken places—to heal, restore, and set us free.
In December 2023, Eric Eliason preached a powerful message at Open Arms Community Church called “Set the Captives Free.” In this sermon, he talks about how God wants to heal our past wounds so we can walk in true freedom.
If you’re struggling with hurt, trauma, or burdens from your past, this message is for you. Take a moment to watch it—and invite God to bring healing where you need it most.
When you’re struggling, it’s easy to feel like God is distant—or worse, that He doesn’t care. Maybe you’ve prayed before and nothing seemed to change. Maybe people told you to “just have more faith,” and it didn’t help.
But faith is not about pretending everything is fine. It’s about trusting God in the middle of the mess.
Jesus Understands Your Pain
If you’ve ever felt completely alone in your suffering, I want you to know Jesus understands exactly what that feels like.
Jesus, the Son of God, went through deep emotional and physical pain. He knows what it’s like to feel crushed, rejected, and in agony. You are not alone in this.
Isaiah 53:4-5 says: “Surely he took up our pain and bore our suffering… But he was pierced for our transgressions, he was crushed for our iniquities; the punishment that brought us peace was on him, and by his wounds we are healed.”
Jesus took all of our pain, all of our suffering, and all of our brokenness upon Himself. He didn’t just come to teach us how to live—He came to rescue us from the darkness.
God is the Source of Real Hope
Faith doesn’t mean you’ll never struggle. It doesn’t mean every bad feeling instantly disappears. But faith gives you something solid to stand on when everything else feels like it’s falling apart.
Romans 15:13 says: “May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace as you trust in him, so that you may overflow with hope by the power of the Holy Spirit.”
Real hope isn’t about wishful thinking. It’s about knowing that God is still in control, even when life feels overwhelming.
Hope says: “This pain is real, but it is not permanent.”
Hope says: “God has not forgotten me, even when I feel invisible.”
Hope says: “God can turn this mess into something beautiful.”
What Does This Mean for You?
If you’re in a dark place, here’s what I want you to know:
1️⃣ You don’t have to fix yourself before coming to God. He meets you right where you are. 2️⃣ You can be honest with God. If you’re angry, confused, or struggling—tell Him. He already knows, and He wants to walk with you through it. 3️⃣ You don’t have to do this alone. God designed us for community. Surround yourself with people who will encourage and pray for you.
Psalm 40:1-2 says: “I waited patiently for the Lord; he turned to me and heard my cry. He lifted me out of the slimy pit, out of the mud and mire; he set my feet on a rock and gave me a firm place to stand.”
No matter how deep the pit feels, God is strong enough to pull you out.
Jesus is not afraid of your darkness. He is the light. And He wants to lead you out of it.
Want to Go Deeper? Watch Our Sermon Series on Overcoming Depression
If you’re struggling with depression, despair, or feelings of hopelessness, you’re not alone—and you don’t have to fight this battle alone.
Back in 2014, Pastor Mike McAvoy led a powerful sermon series at Open Arms Community Church called “Defeating the Dragon of Depression and Despair.” In this series, he dives deep into the spiritual, emotional, and practical aspects of overcoming depression, offering biblical wisdom and real hope.
We encourage you to take some time to watch these messages and let God’s truth replace the lies of hopelessness.
1️⃣ Ask God for help. He hears you and cares for you. 2️⃣ Take inventory of what you’re feeding your mind. Start replacing negativity with hope. 3️⃣ Reach out for help. A friend, a pastor, a counselor—don’t keep this to yourself.
Join Us for Prayer on Monday Night
If you need hope, if you need someone to pray for you, if you just need to be in a place where you’re not alone—join us at Open Arms Community Church for our Monday Night Prayer Meeting. No pressure, no judgment. Just a time to seek peace and healing together.
