How to Pray (According to Jesus): The Lord’s Prayer, Real Faith, and Why Solitude Matters
Many of us wonder, Am I praying right? Do I have to say the exact words? Does God really hear me? Family Pastor Annette Dennison answers these questions with Scripture, a personal healing testimony, and a simple framework for a life of prayer you can actually live. Prayer is not performance—it’s relationship.
“Prayer doesn’t change things; God changes things… It’s the God to whom we pray who has all power.” – Pastor Annette Dennison
What Is Prayer, Really?
Prayer is an honest conversation with God—real emotions, real requests, and a real relationship. It’s how we cultivate friendship with Him and grow in joy.
“Prayer is our primary portal to joy… The more you pray, the more you think to pray.” – Pastor Annette Dennison
Jesus’ Teaching on Prayer (Matthew 6:5–15)
Jesus warns against praying to be seen and invites us into secret, sincere communion with the Father:
Matthew 6:5–8 (NIV):
“And when you pray, do not be like the hypocrites… But when you pray, go into your room, close the door and pray to your Father, who is unseen… And when you pray, do not keep on babbling… for your Father knows what you need before you ask him.”
Then He offers a pattern we can follow:
Matthew 6:9–13 — The Lord’s Prayer:
“Our Father in heaven, hallowed be your name,
your kingdom come, your will be done, on earth as it is in heaven.
Give us today our daily bread.
And forgive us our debts, as we also have forgiven our debtors.
And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from the evil one.”
And He adds:
Matthew 6:14–15:
“For if you forgive other people when they sin against you, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you do not forgive others their sins, your Father will not forgive your sins.”
Key takeaway: The Lord’s Prayer is a pattern, not a performance. It reorients our hearts to God’s name, God’s will, God’s provision, God’s mercy, and God’s leadership.
Does Prayer “Work”? Faith and God’s Power
Mark 11:24:
“Therefore I tell you, whatever you ask for in prayer, believe that you have received it, and it will be yours.”
Faith isn’t magic words—it’s trust in the God who answers.
Annette shared how, after the church prayed over her, doctors who previously saw four pituitary tumors found none on the follow-up scan. Her response?
“My God took them away.” – Pastor Annette Dennison
James 5:16:
“The prayer of a righteous person is powerful and effective.”
1 Thessalonians 5:16–18:
“Rejoice always, pray continually, give thanks in all circumstances; for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus.”
Why Solitude Matters—Jesus Shows the Way
Jesus practiced secret prayer—often, and for long stretches.
Luke 6:12:
“One of those days Jesus went out to a mountainside to pray, and spent the night praying to God.”
Mark 1:35–38:
“Very early in the morning, while it was still dark, Jesus got up… to a solitary place, where he prayed…”
Solitude clears the noise so you can give God your undivided attention and learn spiritual discipline.
Psalm 100:
“Worship the Lord with gladness… Enter his gates with thanksgiving…”
Gratitude is the doorway to deeper love.
Why Pray Together? The Power of Corporate Prayer
2 Chronicles 7:14–15:
“If my people, who are called by my name, will humble themselves and pray… then I will hear from heaven… I will forgive… and will heal their land. Now my eyes will be open and my ears attentive to the prayers offered in this place.”
When God’s people humble themselves, repent, and seek His face together, communities change.
Four Practical Levels of Prayer
Annette outlined a simple path you can start today:
- Talking to God – Pray Scripture (Psalms), historic prayers, or sing.
- Talking with God – Share details of your life with gratitude; ask for help (petition) and stand in the gap for others (intercession).
- Listening to God – Make quiet space to hear His “still, small voice.”
- Being with God – Rest in His presence: “To look at Him, looking at us in love.”
Try This Today
- Find a quiet moment. Pray the Lord’s Prayer slowly.
- Add your own words: Name a need, confess a sin, thank God for one gift, ask for guidance.
- Sit in silence for one minute and listen.
- Text a friend: “How can I pray for you today?”
- Before bed, whisper: “Father, I trust You with this.”
Looking for a Church in Bradford, PA?
If you’re spiritually curious or hurting and wondering how to pray, we’d love to walk with you.
Open Arms Community Church in Bradford, PA is a place to find hope, healing, and purpose in Jesus—together in microchurches and on Sundays.
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